Oh, I'll keep going with this until I die

More phrases:

• That's what I'M talkin' about

Lists

I have had so many things I could have written about in the past 2 weeks, but my brain has lost the ability to string together many sentences longer than up to 160 characters (140 if I twittered as much as the news shows claim I should).

Phrases that should be expunged from the English language

• You go, girl.
• Back in the day.
• And whatnot.
• Give (giving, gave) 110%.
• It's go time.
• (Anyone calling anybody) babe.

Things I have seen lately that shocked me, but not too much

• A bin of fedoras on sale at the local Walgreen's
• A business man trying to enter a building by choosing to go through the other door rather than open other door for the visibly disabled person exiting through the same set.
• The hat guy from the beer festival last year.
• The link on Yahoo from E! Online's newsfeed, posted under the main headline on Natasha Richardson's death, that read "Who Gets Invited to a Celebrity Funeral-- and How?"
  

I have other lists of things, like commercial personalities and jingles that I hate, but that will have to wait for another day.

Ever have one of those immune systems?

It lives on my nose, on the tip and back to the left. It has settled also in the bag underneath my eye, which dries out my eye enough for it to hang out there as well.

No, I'm not talking about an adorable tiny wombat named Benson (He moved to Newman's right ear. They get along pretty well, except for the fights about the phone bills). I'm talking about another MRSA blossom that, like all lumps worth their salt, hurts like a mothefucker and makes everything that happens throughout the day more irritating, more painful and more "I'm going to rip the head off the next person who makes eye contact with me".

I'm sure you've had days like that.

So I'm on honkin' antibiotics and taking 16 vicodin a day (what am I - an amateur?), and I have to stick a Q-tip covered with goop up my nose three times a day. As you might imagine, I am a joy to be around.

Oh, and I passed a kidney stone this morning.

So, I've been out of the office for the past two days, writhing in pain and cursing the day I was born, and I show up at work this morning and the boss expects me to prepare for the complicated training I'll be giving tomorrow, and get the handouts rewritten, and rewrite the curriculum. And answer the phones. And respond to emails. And babysit the douchbag coworker who I used to think might be useful until it became apparent that (a) he thinks he's smarter than everyone else [this is an IT guy, you're thinking, how shocking! Yeah, I know] and 2. he hates being told what to do by women.

Anyway, I think my boss is punishing me for being out sick 4 days out the past four weeks. We're all a little passive-aggressive in our loverly little group, but pulling this "get stuff that takes three days done in roughly 5 hours, so you can stand in front of a class of high-maintenence bone-headed computer users who want to learn more about downloading jebus quote screensavers and couldn't give a hooter's tip how Outlook works" thing is fucked up, even for her.

And? On top of that? She sends me an email and says "Oh, don't forget to wander around with a candy basket harrassing people into coming up with questions for you to answer." Sweet.

So today's been a pretty "everything is sucky" day for me. I hope you enjoyed my whining. Be sure to tune in next time for a one-woman play about missing the bus and the new shoes that don't fit.

The ache of blue anger

Ok, before I start, you need to watch this. I just saw it on TV and it made me laugh heartily:

I want my ringtone to be "THIS IS LIFE ALERT. YOU HAVE BEEN DETECTED. PLEASE GET OUT NOW!"

And now...

The Least Satisfying Break-up Ever

I was prepared. I had typed up a timeline, I had my arguments in bullet points. Sure, I was sitting there in my hospital gown with a paper blanket covering my naked legs, but I had righteousness on my side. I was ready to kick her perky Beaverton ass.

So of course she walks in and the first words out of her mouth are "You know, I really think you should try to find a doctor nearer to where you live."

She fucking broke up with me first! Argh!

I did make my point that partially filling my prescription for 5 days and then taking a fucking week vacation wasn't cool. And when she said she did that so I would make an appointment, I said I would have come in if she'd just left the message with the pharmacist. I'm not 13 (I added in my head). Then I asked her if she would have done that if I needed an insulin refill. And of course she answered "No". I frowned. When I told her the whole story I got an apology, but that left me almost as frustrated as I was last week. well, with slightly less murderous rage, but still. She psychically cock blocked me. All I could do was demand copies of my medical records and she just said "pick up the form at reception." Then came the speculum.

The paperwork said that I would only be getting a Cliff Notes version of the past two years of visits and x-rays and labs. Since the whole reason my doctor blackmailed me into making an appointment was because I hadn't been to see her in 2 years, this was clearly not going to work. Luckily, my attorney had supplied me with a letter that outlined what I was legally entitled to per HIPAA (basically, anything I wanted). I went downstairs to records and was all ready to fight, but when I told them I wanted everything, all the chick behind the counter said was "OK, but you know we'll be charging you for it, right?"

Yeah, I knew that.
An hour later I was at my rheumatologist's office (I took the whole day off so I could see two doctors and a vet) and told him my story. He listened to me with a ponderous look on his face and then moved on without comment. At least he took a copy of my incident time line, which was a little satisfying, but I don't think he knew what it was, exactly. His assistant, who was also his daughter, asked me a bunch of questions and then he came in and poked at my joints and moved my arms around and generally posed me (most respectfully) like a Barbie doll. Then he sat me down and updated me on my physical phailures:

++ Chronic myofascial pain due to poorly controlled blood glucose levels and vitamin D deficency.
++ Vitamin D deficiency.
++ Possible pinched nerve or nerve damage in my left neck and shoulder.
++ Possible anemia.
++ Chronic fatigue (not necessarily the syndrome kind, for all you attorneys who represent The Man in worker's comp cases. Yeah, I'm lookin' at you, Paul).
++ Fibromyalgia, or a close relative, that is contributing to all of the above.

That'll put the balls in your Medicine Balls.

At least I got a new prescription for Vicodin. I could fill it now and be practically swimming in pills, but I'll be a good patient and at least wait until I finish my first bottle. Maybe. It depends on how the next couple of weeks at work go.

Twitting away

After much thought, I have decided to not only resume Twitter, but to actually follow That Woman's posts. Why, you ask? How, you query? What in holy hell are you doing, you scream?

Well, for the entertainment factor, of course. I subscribed to her feed and have found she has only twitted thrice. Here, for you enjoyment, are those selfsame entries:

Posted: 2/15/09: Packing for the Seychelles!
Posted: 2/22/09: Leaving Wednesday!
Posted 2/23/08: Tired of the rain and ready for the sun.. very soon!

How intriguing and clever! I cannot wait to read more of her exploits.

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I have also decided to Twitter again. For those of you who follow me, I must warn you that I won't be saying anything interesting. Here's my plan: I will pick the most boring things or phrases that come to mind-- or maybe good movie quotes or references-- translate them to Esperanto, then post them. Here is my first entry:

ĉirkaŭiris kaj distribu sukeraĵo(j). Mi vidas vin manĝis unu, Mi est-as?

Which translates into

Walked around and distributed candy. I see you ate one, am I?

Some may recognize that last phrase as being the inscrutable license plate of Tracy Jordan on 30 Rock. I look forward to supplying you with both her entries and mine.

MOTH.ER.FUCK.ER.

First off, I'm sorry I had to lock this shit down for a bit, but I foolishly put this URL in my Twitter profile, and That Woman has started to follow me. Because she's crazy nosy. I guess it's possible she didn't click on the link because she didn't know what URL meant, but there was a sharp increase in hits on the day she started to follow me.

I don't know why I'm so freaked about this, but I don't want her knowing stuff about me. I'm less concerned about her finding the stuff I wrote about her, but I really don't want her to give her fuel for her ridiculous snotty remarks about things like my stupid health or all the embarrassing moments I've been posting.

If it turns out I'm being paranoid, I'll reopen it. I just like thinking that she'll try to come back to read it and find that she's been locked out. It seems sufficiently passive-aggressive.

[ETA: Obviously, the lock has been lifted. Who the fuck really cares, I thought?)
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Second off, and what I really need to talk about, is how much I despise my Primary Care physician (PCP) and everyone in her office. She decided that, because I haven't been to see her lately, that she would more or less cut me off from my vicodin until I made an appointment.

She filled a partial prescription that would last 5 days. That ran out smack dab in the middle of a three day weekend. Thanks for that, you jerk. I had to wait to refill my prescription until Tuesday, day 2 of having NO PAIN MEDICATION. That's so awesome since my leg and hip pain has gotten significantly worse and I have been officially diagnosed with Fibromyalgia.

I hate my PCP.

She couldn't have done this when she refilled my thyroid medicine the week before? Of course not. She could have had a lawsuit if she did this with my insulin, because that's good medicine. No insulin would kill me. No vicodin just makes everything extremely painful, thus punishing me for being on a drug that some people use recreationally.

I really hate my PCP.

I spent Tuesday on three marathon phone calls, telling my story to three different people who all gave me wrong information. Yes, the doctor is here-- have your drug store fax the info. Then? No, the doctor isn't here after all, but they see the info from the drug store and it's "In her queue". Lastly, I got an on call nurse, who told me there was nothing she could do and I'd have to wait until tomorrow, because even if I left a message for the on-call doctor, he wouldn't be filling any prescription for me. They don't do that sort of thing.

I really hate my PCP and her nurses and assistants.

I spent the night tossing and turning physically and mentally. I spent my sleep time angrily reliving the days interactions, adding even more to my stress and my anxiety.

My god, I hate my PCP.

I woke this morning determined to get this shit out of the way. I called at 10:00 AM and was told it "was in her queue" and she'd get to it in the afternoon, after she saw her patients. I asked that they try to expedite it, since this was day three of my not having my legitimate medicine for a legitimate disease. She reluctantly said she would.

I hate the nurses and assistants in Internal Medicine.

I called again at 3:00 PM to remind them again. It's in the queue, yeah yeah yeah. It was in the queue yesterday and we know how that worked out. I called again at five minutes before their office closed and was lectured that she would get to it.

I really really hate my PCP's office and everyone in it.

It's almost seven now, she is not in her office and there is no prescription at Walgreen's.

I will hitch a ride with my husband tomorrow to Beaverton so I can throttle every god damn person in Internal Medicine, grab my medical records-- built over 9 years and roughly the size of the OED-- and hightail it to my rheumatologist to take over everything. I swear I'll even get my pap smears from him.

That's how much I hate my PCP.

The Ack-Ack of Love

Once I realized I wasn't going to get any carnations during the Valentine's Day fund raisers in high school, I lost my interest in celebrating Valentine's Day. I'm not waiting breathlessly, cartoon hearts popping above my head, for chocolates and flowers and showers of diamonds.

But my dear The Husband wants to do something for Valentine's Day-- nothing fancy, maybe dinner and a movie-- so I thought I'd make my Valentine's entry today instead.

Why I Love My Husband and You Can't Have Him

* He once started a slap fight with me while waiting at a red light, which made a complete stranger--turning left at the time-- laugh. And this satisfies me.

* He argues with the cats as much as I do.

* He also loves Whoppers and Canada.

* He gets things down off too-high shelves for me.

* He puts ketchup on his macaroni and cheese

* He writes the funniest emails I've ever read.

* He tucks me in every night and directs the cats to their proper snuggling positions.

* He speaks-- and understands-- my gibberish.

* He is very quiet in public, which makes me feel special when he talks freely with me. Well, "freely".

* He mocks the same things I do.

* He lets me MST3K commercials, news and Access Hollywood.

* He recognizes my insulin reactions hours before I notice-- and he has in a very real way saved my life numerous times.

We exchange cards with cat pictures on them on Feb 14th and maybe go to dinner, but we don't need to wait for a day to say we love each other. We don't need a specific day to do something nice for each other.

That's a normal day for us, so suck on it Jared.